Congratulations! You’ve just stepped into one of the most rewarding leadership roles—being a principal. But along with the excitement comes the reality: an overwhelming flood of responsibilities, advice, and competing priorities.
And this brings us to The One Mistake New Principals Can’t Afford to Make in Their First Year: spreading themselves too thin by trying to be everywhere, solve everything, and do it all at once.
I get it. The pressure to “get it right” can lead you down the path of overcommitting, overplanning, and, eventually, burnout.
If you’re feeling this, you’re not alone. Many new principals fall into this trap because they want to make a difference quickly—but trying to do too much often leads to diminishing returns.
Here’s why that’s a problem—and more importantly, how to fix it.
Why Trying to Do Too Much Can Hurt Your Leadership
When you try to do it all, three things typically happen:
You lose focus. Instead of making meaningful progress, you end up hopping between tasks and reacting to fires.
You feel exhausted. Overcommitment leads to decision fatigue, affecting your ability to be present and make thoughtful decisions.
You miss key opportunities. With so many distractions, it’s easy to miss the moments that could drive school-wide impact—like building trust with staff or improving instructional practices.
The Fix: Focus on These 4 Areas First
Rather than trying to master every aspect of leadership immediately, focus on what I call the S.T.E.P. Framework. These 4 areas will help you build a solid foundation without overwhelming yourself.
S - Structure Your Systems
Success starts with organization. Develop systems that keep you on top of communication, scheduling, and decision-making.
Implement a weekly meeting routine with key staff members.
Use digital tools to track deadlines and action plans.
Delegate routine tasks to free up time for strategic leadership.
Pro Tip: Don’t try to create perfect systems overnight. Start with small wins, like organizing your inbox or scheduling regular check-ins.
T - Tailor Your Leadership
You don’t need to be someone else or mimic your predecessor to succeed. Lean into your strengths and tailor your leadership style to fit your school’s unique needs.
Are you a visionary? Focus on long-term initiatives.
Are you a relationship builder? Prioritize team morale and connection.
Know when to be hands-on and when to step back.
Remember: Leadership isn’t about doing it all—it’s about being authentic and showing up intentionally.
E - Engage Your Network
Your leadership journey isn’t meant to be a solo mission. Build and lean on a network of mentors, other principals, and district leaders who can guide you.
Join principal groups (like The Principalship Collective) to get access to advice and real-time support.
Ask questions without hesitation—no one expects you to have all the answers.
Collaborate with your leadership team and empower them to make decisions.
Pro Tip: Strong networks reduce isolation and give you valuable perspectives when solving challenges.
P - Progress with Purpose
Set clear priorities and goals that align with your school’s mission. Don’t chase every initiative. Instead, focus on what will move the needle.
Identify 2-3 key initiatives for the year (e.g., improving literacy outcomes or creating a positive school culture).
Break those initiatives into manageable steps with deadlines.
Regularly evaluate progress and adjust as needed.
Pro Tip: Progress isn’t always linear. Celebrate small wins along the way to keep your momentum.
How to Stay Grounded and Avoid Overwhelm
Even with the right focus, it’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind. Here’s how to stay grounded:
Use a “Not-To-Do” List: Write down what you won’t be focusing on this year. This could include side projects, unnecessary meetings, or initiatives that don’t align with your priorities.
Schedule Time for Reflection: Block time each week to evaluate what’s working and what isn’t. Self-reflection is key to conscious leadership.
Don’t Be Afraid to Say “No”: Boundaries protect your energy and ensure you’re saying yes to the right things.
Final Thoughts: You’re Exactly Where You Should Be
It’s okay to feel overwhelmed—this role is challenging. But the fact that you’re here, seeking advice and strategies, means you’re already ahead of the curve. Someone believed in you, and you have every right to lead from a place of strength.
If you ever feel like you’re “filling someone else’s shoes,” remember: This is your leadership journey. You’re writing your story, not living someone else’s.
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Let’s take this step together—because leadership doesn’t have to be lonely.
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